I Judge People, Do You?

 I am trying not to judge...it is difficult for me.

I have believed even before I studied A Course in Miracles and the Law of Attraction, that in any moment in time, people do what they feel they must do. Maybe it's because of their beliefs, their upbringing, their environment, who knows. But if we, and others, do the only thing we feel we must do, how can blame for anything be assigned?

And who am I to judge other people, anyway. I know we have different beliefs, different perspectives. So if my judgement is due to their outfit, to how they destroy the English language when they speak, to the fact they don't recycle correctly, or an action they take ,it doesn't matter. They probably judge some of the same things in me.

As far as that last sentence goes, I don't really care about other people's opinions of me. That's something I learned from the Law of Attraction.

I hope I am making sense here. Sometimes I think I confuse myself. 

I have not believed in Hell for ages, either. Even before I became a "reformed Christian."  Partly it's due to the idea above. And, if someone did something bad enough to end up in Hell, they must be sick. Now, would God condemn a sick person? I don't think so.



I also judge myself. I know the Law of Attraction is against guilt as a feeling. I judge myself for something I may say without thinking that may have been hurtful, for neglecting chores in my home, letting the laundry build up and...for past things I have done to name a few.

When I notice something I don't like...in a person, my building, my environment, I tell myself, "Not any of my business." 

I know others may not agree. They feel we must care about things like that and change them. The Law of Attraction says that the more things we love that we see and focus on them...the more we get to love coming back. If I were to worry about things that need change...more of them would come into my experience.

The way we feel is our guidance from Source (God). When we feel bad, we need to change the thought to a better one. I believe I am going to just concentrate on feeling good!

Maybe you'll try it to and let me know how it works for you!


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